It is perfectly normal, although, of course, immensely distressing, to have strong reactions following a heart-breaking, frightening or upsetting event, but these should begin to reduce gradually after a few weeks … sometimes very gradually
The reactions may be a lot more severe and do not gradually subside after a month or even several weeks, months or years. They may persist and become quite debilitating. It is also true that these responses may not be visible to other people in some cases. Some people almost ‘seize up’ and carry their responses inside but those responses can still affect them physically, emotionally and mentally and disturb their life in very many ways.
The human body and mind will go into a state of heightened arousal as a safety measure. Adrenaline and other stress hormones are released to provide us with energy to fight or flee as a reaction to an emergency. Sometimes we may go into a ‘freeze’ response and be unable to think or act logically.
These responses may be so strong that a sense of fatigue can set in for a while but generally they do not last too long after the immediate threat has subsided. This is how the normal healing and recovery process occurs.
It can be horrendous but it is a natural response and generally will lessen gradually.
Family and friends can provide much of this support but medical and psychological support should definitely be sought if the problems linger on significantly for more than a few weeks
We have a Trauma Series of audios which can help people cope with some of these typical post-traumatic responses. Flashbacks, Hyper-arousal and general feelings of high anxiety and misery. Clearly if you have PTSD you need, as I said earlier, psychological and/or medical help but these audios could still provide a level of calming and comfort. You can read the descriptions and listen to the samples here https://www.firstwayforward.com/product-tag/trauma/
Remember our Trauma Series of audios here can help with some of these symptoms
https://www.firstwayforward.com/product-tag/trauma/
This is a helpful site:
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/overview/
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